Q: How do I break a negative pattern?
1. First, notice it.
Maybe you always end up in drama-filled relationships, or you go through endless cycles of overreacting and guilt. The challenge with negative patterns is that they're unconscious. But we can train our minds to recognize them by paying attention to our emotions: When we feel...
Event: Discover your unique S.H.A.P.E. Join Jimi Tewe and Stanley Nku
Discover your unique S.H.A.P.E and unleash it to your advantage and the improvement of other lives around.
Join us this saturday as @JimiTewe and @StanleyNku1 share their experiences of success. Straight and real time out with mentors.
Venue - Genesis Hall, 6 Akinsemoyin Street off Bode Thomas, Surulere
Date: 1st March, 2014
Time:...
Opportunities for Writers: To be Published on Ynaija.com (30 days, 30 voices)
You can write. I can write. Anybody can write. Are you up for the challenge? This March, ynaija.com, Nigeria's internet newspaper for all things youthful and Nigerian brings you an awesome opportunity to share your personal experiences, opinions and views with the world through '30 days, 30 voices'.
30 Days, 30 Voices series is an opportunity...
Event: Do Not Despise The Days Of Little Beginnings !
About 2000 years ago, a young man began a new move. He was unknown except in his little community. Even the people in his village rejected him. They believed nothing would become of his God- given dream to deliver the world.
His life was short. He was killed few months after his 33rd birthday. It appeared that all hope was lost. When asked what he had achieved within this period, all he could account for were 12 followers. Most...
Unchecked proximity breeds immorality: 6 Reasons Why You Must Be Sexually Accountable
"Temptation is like a knife that may either cut the meat or the throat of a man; it may be his food or his poison, his exercise or his destruction" – John Owen"The prince of this world has tried me and has found nothing in me." Imagine if Bill Clinton, Dominique Strauss Khan, Eliot Spitzer, Mike Tyson, Tiger Woods all had people they could...
Breaking Free from the Chains of Guilt
When painful situations arise in our life very often there is a load of guilt that goes along with it. We seek to find answers as to why we're hurting and all too often that results in a pointed finger back at ourselves--even if it was the other party who wanted to part ways. When it comes to a failed relationship... You may feel guilty...
Inspiring Story: Christabel Ofori
How do you want the world to know you? A brief Introduction.I am an easy going, fun-loving, optimistic and enthusiastic young woman; a chemical engineer by profession, a singer and writer by passion, a philanthropist by character, and an up and coming social entrepreneur. I love maths and science, and love to solve problems, and would always...
Use your Conduct not Your Condom- By Chike Ofili
When our homes and Privacies gets invaded
We put up high moral grounds of hefty fences,
Get Dogs and cops to protect Us
And warn all and sundry to beware
Now that we have been hit below the belt
Trained eyes say the sack now leaks with hidden holes 50 times the size of the enemy
As you remember to beware of dogs
Do also remember to beware of condoms
For whenever you are tempted, use your conduct
For condoms cover...
Top 10 Laws for Single Ladies
1. Have the Fear of God!
2. Don't be in a hurry to move out of your parent's house.
3. Don't wait for a man before you
start living. You can live a fulfilled life as a single woman.
4. Stay away from alcohol. It has killed others and you are not special.
5. Don't entertain wrong numbers calling you, especially late in the...
Living a Disciplined Life

It takes determination to live a disciplined life. Do you know there are ladies who go to the club and never come back? For some, their drinks are drugged, some guys have night accidents as a result of driving under the influence of alcohol, some girls are used for rituals, some are initiated into secret societies. The question...
Lessons From The Soup
Any time you are confused, check the purpose of your life because it the compass for your life.
God does not care about where you are rather, where you are going.
Don't mistake God's polishing for punishment because His polishing only makes you shine brighter.
Faith is not about talking but knowing God. The extent...
The difference between Surrender and Sacrifice.
Surrender is giving up something when it is requested while sacrifice goes beyond submission because it has to do with submission before a request is made.
Sharing the little in your hands with others without being callous releases the power of God and causes multiplication of the same.
Know who you are and the things that belong...
Can Drugs Make You Smarter?

A new type of drug is on the streets, this one called nootropics. Haven’t heard of them? Nootropics are also known as smart drugs, brain steroids or memory enhancers. Whereas some medicine provides remedy or relief from infection or pain, smart drugs play a role in helping to enhance the natural skills of individuals, particularly...
Valentine's Special: Funmibi Ojo' on FEB '14'
"...But you can purpose in your heart that you would not defile yourself..."
I've had occasions to listen to few (among many others) ladies bitter experiences about their sexual escapades...and on the long run when you ask some of them how it all started; they say: "I broke my 'Gate' on Val's day". Imagine someone coming to you and...
The Seeker of Truth
After years of searching, the seeker was told to go to a cave, in which he would find a well. 'Ask the well what is truth', he was advised, 'and the well will reveal it to you'. Having found the well, the seeker asked that most fundamental question. And from the depths came the answer, 'Go to the village crossroad: there you shall find what you are seeking'.
Full of hope and anticipation the man ran to the crossroad to find...
The Last Ride
'Just a minute', answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor. After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90s stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940s movie.
By her side was a small nylon suitcase....
Red Media & The Future Project presents SME-Support Clinics, Business & Entrepreneurship
In a collaboration between Red Media Africa, The Future Project & Y!, Red Media SMS-Support will host a clinic where its experts and others invited will directly engage with as many young SME owners and NGOs and give them advise and strategies to expand their business, drive profitability causes using social media. Why you should attend This event will be an avenue for small business owners to get practical tips to boost...
Attend the Nigerian Economic Summit Group to develop Youth Oriented Career and Entrepreneurial Programs
TheJobMag.com
(A Nigerian Leading Youth Development and Go-to Recruitment Agency) recently partnered with the Nigerian Economic Summit Group to develop Youth Oriented Career and Entrepreneurial Programs. Please find details below-
To kick start, we have organised a dialogue with the Director General, NESG Mr. Frank Nweke II.
For...
Join the Youth Citizen Entrepreneurship Competition
The YOUTH CITIZEN ENTREPRENEURSHIP COMPETITION is a new and exciting international program launched by The Goi Peace Foundation, Stiftung Entrepreneurship (Berlin) and UNESCO. It aims to empower young entrepreneurs and innovators to create positive change in their communities.
Young people from all regions around the world between...
Apply for 2014/2015 NNPC/Chevron Nigerian University Scholarship
2014/2015 NNPC/Chevron JV National University Scholarship Awards for Undergraduate students
Chevron Nigeria Limited, in collaboration with its Joint Venture partner, the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC), is offering a number of Chevron Scholarship Awards to suitably qualified undergraduate students in Nigerian Universities.
Full-time second year (200level) students studying specific courses listed below, in...
How to Discover Your Life Purpose in About 20 Minutes
How do you discover your real purpose in life? I'm not talking about your job, your daily responsibilities, or even your long-term goals. I mean the real reason why you're here at all — the very reason you exist.
Perhaps you're a rather nihilistic person who doesn't believe you have a purpose and that life has no meaning. Doesn't matter.
Not...
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