We aim at rejuvenating Moral Values, to cub youthful exuberance.
We live in a sexually gratuitous society. Graphic displays of sexuality can be seen on TV and social media platforms. Our socialization process inculcates inappropriate values in the subconscious mind of these growing generations.
The predominant world view being promoted today is largely pornographic, primarily self- centered and definitely embraces a twisted understanding of what love and relationships are about.
Asking ourselves: Is Love truly equivalent with Sex? Is it all relationship that involves sexual contact that lasts? There are so many happenings. We need to understand God's purpose for sexuality in a positive way. But since many have fallen into sexual sin and are ashamed to speak on a topic they personally struggle with. Don't struggle, Just stop, you'll be fine. Towards the end of this write up, we'll analyse secondary Virgins.
The Sexuality of a man has a lot to do with his spirituality and how far he/she goes in life. Sexuality has influence upon the world's problems. We must begin to understand that a sexually permissive culture calls for doom. We see the cases of young girls having teenage pregnancy, some committing abortion and all sorts. The hunger driving our sexual desires can never be fully satisfied. It'll be wise to engage in sexual activities only at the appropriate time, which is in the context of marriage. God planted the hormone in Us. And most times I tell some male folks" Do not follow the DIRECTION of your ERECTION"
Men; do not give yourself to prostitutes or you may loose everything you own.
When you see a good looking woman, look the other way, don't let your mind dwell on the beauty of any woman who is not your wife.
You really won't blame a good man, who continually says his wife is the most beautiful woman on earth. Because he has made up his mind not to get distracted with any other woman irrespective of their looks. He appreciates only his wife and she is full of so much joy. Tell me, why won't such a man prosper. He definitely would succeed in all he does.
Many men have been led astray by a woman's beauty. Flesh provides the theological anchor for reclaiming an integrated sexual ethic. Since the dawn of time, people have struggled to understand and steward their sexuality.
Sexual Passion is a hot, blazing fire that cannot be put off at will; it can only burn itself out. A man who lives for nothing but sexual enjoyment will keep on till the fire destroys him. To such a man, all women are desirable, and he can never get enough as long as he lives. The man who is unfaithful to his wife and says "no one will ever know" is only afraid of other people, but doesn't realize that the eyes of God is ten thousand times brighter than the sun, that sees everything we do, even when we try to hide it.
Do you realise that a sinful man will be caught up when he least expects it and be punished publicly. That's when we begin to hear the story of a man who was involved in sexual scandal, a lecturer caught in an hotel room with a student, a very pretty lady with STD's, a young girl pregnant and the world will say shakara don end. And all sorts of stories.
Sexual looseness is so common that many people see it as normal. That is, people have come to believe that the difficult, confusing and painful way we often experience our sexuality is the way it was meant to be. We live in a sexually confused and painful world. People have become slaves to their desires. Much of what we see, read and hear every day is fabricated in order to manipulate our emotions, attitudes and wallets.
I came across a very popular and traffic driven News site, and they gave so many reasons why masturbation is good. I imagine the number of young people who would key to those facts and continue masturbation also giving thousands of people the opportunity to try it. Its like providing a sinner, more opportunity to Sin. And a saint, a golden platform to commit sin unknowingly.
Do not be controlled by lust. Keep your passion in check. If you allow yourself to satisfy your every desire, you will be a joke to your enemies. The enemy would penetrate you easily.
"Wine and women makes sensible men do foolish things". A man who goes to prostitutes gets more and more careless and that carelessness will cost him his life.
Sexual immorality is so terrible. Some will say, " I am allowed to do anything". Yes, but everything is not good for you. The body is not to be used for sexual immorality, but to serve God. Do you know that a man who joins his body to a prostitute, becomes physically one with her? Avoid immorality. You do not belong to yourselves but to God. He bought you with a price, so use your bodies for God's glory.
Ladies, do not be scared of another woman snatching your man, by giving in to his sexual advances.
During my Tweet chat on Sexuality and You, I mentioned Sex won't make him stay, sex rather would make both people concentrate on just Lust and not how best to help each other pursue their goals and purpose in life.
Let your Courtship be devoid of Sexual pleasure. Concentrate on making sure your boyfriend/girlfriend you want to marry is who God wants you to be with. Seek Gods approval.
I'v always believed in setting priorities right, which are:
-Relationship with God
-Purpose Discovery
-Career uplift
-Divine Partner
I really don't bother myself about who my husband is gonna be. Cos I know God has reserved the most amazing man on earth for me. But before he finds me I need to concentrate on my first 3 priorities, which is my relationship with he who created me(God), my assignment on earth, and how I can impact my world without financial constraints or having a lack insight. So I develop myself daily to ensure my career lift.
I Say congrats to all who have kept their bodies. But for those who where raped or have been ignorant on the essentiality of maintaining sexual purity, there is a good news for you.
Have you heard of Secondary Virgins?
You can be a virgin again.
An individual can be a born-again virgin, secondary virgin or renewed virgin if, after having engaged in sexual intercourse, he/she makes a commitment not to be sexually active until marriage (or some other point in the future, or indefinitely),
God has the power to restore you emotionally, spiritually and mentally to a place where you can be pure and whole again. Committing to chastity after mistakes is possible and helps you become an amazing gift for your future spouse.
All of us have made mistakes and sinned during our lives. However, we believe that God still loves us and will always forgive us. Sometimes, though, people think that God will only forgive the "little" stuff, but never anything serious like premarital sex. The wonderful truth is that God not only forgives us, but also He wants to give us a gift called secondary virginity.
Secondary virginity makes a person emotionally and spiritually whole again. God wants to restore our purity. Even though the physical consequences of premarital sex can be devastating and life threatening, some people underestimate the emotional and spiritual effects of sex outside of marriage. Furthermore, the emotional and spiritual effects of sex can be longer lasting and even more severe than the physical repercussions.
After having premarital sex, a person may feel lonely, hurt, broken, afraid, guilty, used, unlovable (by God and others), confused, and many other emotions. Although it might seem like these feelings will never go away, eventually they can diminish and sometimes even disappear. Through prayer, counseling, confession, and penance, God has the power heal us. This process doesn't work like magic. One must be truly sorry, understanding the hurt that has been caused. He or she should sincerely desire forgiveness so they can be made whole again. And, most importantly, one must also seriously re-commit him/herself to a life of chastity (refrain from sexual activity outside of marriage) for the remainder of his/her life.
It takes time for an injured person to heal and it can be a very slow process, but with God's grace things will get easier. Don't give up. If you seek out and pray for the gift of secondary virginity, it could be one of the most life-changing experiences of your whole life!
Wish You the very Best.
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